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Please read my story and indicate below what you think?

I am a lady of 43 years and my partner is 70 years. I met him in Nigeria when I was 28 and his 55th On meeting him I did not worry about him because he looked old with wrinkles, but he was friendly and nice to me and then helped me financially, as I came from a poor family, plus I’ve never had a relationship at the age of 28 years, I thought it would be better with the Lord, the stay 55 at the time.


He took me to Nigeria and we are now finally in London. I do not have a child as I suffered a lot in my childhood because my mother had five children, and it was hell, we also eat my training and progress in life has suffered greatly. Sometimes I tell myself that I do not want to end up like my mother with no money. So I have decided that the situation is not stable for me, a child.

I tell myself that life is hard in life there are things that we are not without. My husband told me sometimes, I’m saving money for you, so I have a two-room apartment as collateral for your age, which in my name, be signed as indicated below buy, it is not there for the rest of life. I have no regrets that no child, because I killed no maternal instinct, I believe, by too much pain and depression and I think if I have a child it is very difficult. Recently I was contacted by a friend on Facebook from Nigeria after 15 years. It’s a nice lady who is very religious, so we exchanged email addresses.

When she sends me e-mails, it keeps on harassing me, that I should try to find another man in my life, have a child as my husband is too old.

As an African I believe that we have children, and if it is not a child as a taboo Please tell me it is a taboo in Europe with a, 70-year-old man. This lady is a very religious woman, and is stigmatized by his religious beliefs. Currently, life is not so rosy for me because I was looking for employment, but I want a job that I have trained as a medical secretary, until my husband works in the same time for my apartment to save. I do not intend to leave it as it is to secure the financial security for my age. I would like to live in a comfortable home, the comfort that I never was young than I am, even now I have no consolation, but ultimately I’m comfortable with an apartment. I’m not upset if I am not a child as it is not a priority. Please do not anyone out there agree with my concept.

Do you think it is for my girlfriend on emphaizing why I can not find, not one other man have good children. Is it because they in Africa like me is because I think we Africans are stuck in the old tradition, children and marriage. There is a saying in Nigeria, “God” in the sense of a woman must have children, even if no money. Can not these people think a little about life if we do not have the finances something it is difficult to feed a child and give the child a good life.

I thought it would actually be a story you’ve done so far, but it is clear to see that you held the woman and the events actually. I do not know what they think or tell you what you have written, but it seems you have had a hard life in your first 28 years. I wish you much luck in the future and we hope you make the right decisions in this life. It appears that you have been given a golden opportunity, so I suggest you make the most of it while you can, but do not be too selfish and not consider others. Good luck.

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